“I like meeting you Sely”
Dai Loc is an orphanage about 45 minutes outside of Da Nang. I wasn’t really sure what to expect. Promise house was mostly younger children, and the atmosphere was absolutely wild… Kids everywhere running and screaming. But I knew Dai Loc had older kids, and many of the kids were from the surrounding villages and had at least one parent. However, because their family could not afford to feed or take care of them, they were sent to Dai Loc. Parents from the poorer areas often have to choose at least one child to send away so that they can afford to take care of their other children… I struggle to understand.
We took a van to Dai Loc and I was able to see the countryside really for the first time. Mountains constantly surrounded us, and I was captivated… In the winter my dad used to plant winter rye grass. I loved it because when everything else was gray and cold, the grass was bright. You couldn’t help but stare, almost like it drew the color out of everything else so that it got all the attention… that is how I felt about the rice fields in Vietnam. They were so green, I’m almost sure it’s a shade I’ve never seen… some of the houses were on stilts over water and others were small with little gardens in the front and vines growing all around the yard. The houses you see most are made out of cement and are panted bright colors, usually very open houses. Some of them made me think of the spanish houses you might see in Arizona but then with a Louisiana kind of twist. Most of the homes are open so the chickens, dogs, whatever can just run through. And all along the road were markets with fruits I never even knew existed. Many have spikes haha so you def want to remove the skin first.
I’m just rambling now, which is easy for me to do, but I just wish I could show you what it all looks like, and sometimes pictures just don’t cut it. I will get some good ones soon though… We stayed at Dai Loc all afternoon and evening. We played hockey with them, soccer… we drew pictures and watched Tangled. I almost felt a little ashamed as we were finishing up Tangled. It was the great happy ending that we love, but I noticed that they couldn’t take their eyes off the TV. I’m sure because they rarely get to see movies, but I wonder what they were thinking. The daughter comes home with her prince and is rejoined with her two loving parents. If I were one of them, I wonder how I would feel about such an ending?
We sat around and chatted for a while. The “Mommas” of Dai Loc are 4 Vietnamese women. Sim, Fee, On, and Hoam. (I did that phonetically, lol have no clue about the spelling) They kept walking up to me and touching my skin. “Dap” they would say… beautiful. If you are not aware, women in Asia long to be white as we like to be tan, so they think we are beautiful. Which, I am constantly amazed by how lovely they are…
When we were leaving a teenage girl walked up to me and begged me to come back next week. She could speak a little English and asked if we could practice. Her name is Jan, and I can tell something is really great about her. When I climbed into the van she said, “good Nigh Sely, I like meeting you and you are ver soable” That last word was sociable. lol I’m very excited to learn their names and know their stories.
Hope everyone has a wonderful Friday night, i’ll have a good Saturday. Sending all my love across the sea!!!